A Clean Slate
Every day is a clean slate, a fresh new snowy white covered space to color; like a canvas. Anything we
Category: Focus
Comparisons
A lot of people have a lot of awesome things going for them. But nobody has everything! So we can
Vacation in Wisconsin
It is so relaxing to be present. I found myself almost anesthetized when next to this little lake in Wisconsin
3-Legged Table Lore: Why I Use that Handle
The name for my blog and writing for single moms is “3-legged Table” because I raised my kids without a
Empowering Our Priorities with Snowballs
I know how it happens. I didn’t quite pay all of the counseling bill. The accountant’s bill for 2019 taxes
Growing My Self Up to Parent Myself
One of the sad things about “growing up” is that people around us (parents, friends, professors, teachers, partners, even children)
Day 4 Being Present: Acceptance, Letting Go, and Leaving Behind
Here is an ugly secret, Sweet Mama: It is really hard to change habits, re-adjust after upheavals, and to consistently
Day 3 Be Present: Habits and Rewards, Straight-up Bribery
Now that we can surf online in bed, I can really get off balance and start my day out under
Day 1 Be Present: Habits and Rewards
This is Day 1! Let’s take a quick minute to congratulate ourselves for moving forward, for deciding to move off
Focus on the Process
There were days when I could barely sit up at the table, I felt so defeated. I had made spaghetti
3-Legged Table: Reframing Our Beautiful Chaos 